You know, I don’t usually drink Diet Coke but today I felt like having one. Do you remember those ads on TV a few years ago, with the topless hunks and the lady office workers having a Diet Coke break when he showed up in the office? I can’t remember what time that was at, 11am? 11:30am? Oh, well, it’s a bit later than that and even though I am not a lady (in the physical sense!), I wouldn’t mind laying my eyes on a topless hunk right now! Anyway, after that random introduction …
Based on GBD’s current track record, it should be clear that I cannot be relied on to make regular contributions to the blogosphere. However, you can rely on me to ask lots of questions about relationships, men, etc; mainly intended for me to try and understand what’s happening around me, as opposed to expressing another truism.
So, in case you are wondering, I can confirm that Mr D and I have crossed that line (several times;-) ) and been intimate! It’s all been very good, actually, amazing but I am not one to kiss and tell, so I’ll spare you the details :-P
As I mentioned in my last post, I believe that my previous relationships have affected the way I behave these days and even though part of it is quite negative (aka “baggage”), I have to admit that my past experience (separations!) has enabled me to “seize the day” and enjoy the fun times while they last. Which is great, as, so far, I’ve had a lot of fun with Mr D, not just sex-wise, but also doing all the things that people do when they start dating.
Thankfully, we haven’t started wispering sweet nothings to each other! Not yet anyway. I really like Mr D and hope he does too, but at the same time I am not sure whether something other than dating will come of it. Should I be falling in love? How long does that take? Is it necessary? Or am I just afraid of commitment? If so, something has changed because I always thought I commited to relationships very quickly.
Either way, it feels good to be wanted/desired by someone. Especially when that happens on a regular basis.
Labels: Relationships